Love or Being Loved? | 粉爱粉爱你

I'm temporarily free from the 'busy-with-coursework-weeks', feel like blogging about the drama I watched last month, which is 粉爱粉爱你. Uhmm. The ending is kind of similar with 单身男女, which the girl end up choosing the one who loves her more, instead of the one she loves.

For me, it's an interesting topic; as you know, in the usual movies or dramas, the girl will choose the first male lead (第一男主角）, also the one she loves; but these two are the exceptions.

单身男女

She chose the one who stay by her and cheer her up all the time, instead of the flirty guy who she loves deeply (although the guy is willing to change for her).

粉爱粉爱你

The girl（乐蒂） w/ the first male lead (宇杰）

They like each other, but there is an issue between them -- 宇杰's ex girlfriend who lost her memory.

乐蒂 with the 2nd male lead (少风）

乐蒂 falls for 少风 at first because he's always helping her whenever she's in trouble, then slowly when she get to know more about 宇杰, she changed her mind.

He's always there to lend her his shoulder, cheer her up, helping her to get together with his brother -- 宇杰.

The drama actually didn't mention clearly that 乐蒂 is choosing 少风，but what I know is, she can't left him behind and choose to be with 宇杰.

Obviously 少风 means something to her, as she said, she's so tired that she always has to catch up with 宇杰, carry on the burden, and also need to accept the fact that he will put her ex girlfriend at the first place in certain situations.

And she's so touch that 少风 always put her at the first place, not forcing her but supporting her at all time.

(“我想要的，是不用回头，就知道他的心，眼神，一定正专注凝视我，可以让我无后顾之忧的依赖他，知道他是我背后的力量，让我安心的继续往前走”）

I know many people disagree with the ending of these movie & drama, yet I'm totally loving it. Why choose someone that will be hesitating to make changes for you or someone who doesn't put you at the first place? I really prefer someone who can always lend me a shoulder. Okay, it's only my opinion, a rational one. 

我要騎士，不要王子！

But, perhaps when I'm in this situation, my heart would probably choose the one I love, who is also the one hurting me?

Who will you choose by following your heart?

                       And who will you choose in rational?

 ＬＯＶＥ　ｏｒ　ＢＥＩＮＧ　ＬＯＶＥ？

王子？還是騎士？